"Well, we went out to a restaurant for dinner, then Daddy said we had to stop by a friend's house and pick something up. When we got there a bunch of our very favorite friends were there! It was a surprise party! Daddy had planned the whole thing!"
She crinkled her nose a bit. "A surprise party for your anniversary? Isn't that kinda weird? Aren't you supposed to get a present?"
"But Daddy knew this would make me the most happy, happier than any present, so that's what he did."
She smiled, "Oh! So he DID give you a present!"
Yesterday was the fourth Sunday of advent. If we'd gathered round our wreath last night, we'd have lit the Love candle.
At some point during the evening, it hit me - we did light the Love candle last night. We SO did.